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Becoming a Mom: A Story From A Mom of Three

My baby bump!

I remember it like it was yesterday.  It was 5am, my hands were shaking uncontrollably, and silence filled our tiny, one bedroom apartment.  Fear, Joy, uncertainty and other weird mixtures of emotions were consuming me.  I took a deep breath, tried to steady my hands and somehow managed to collect enough urine on the pregnancy test.  I waited the longest two minutes of my life, for proof, I was almost already certain of.  I remember picking up the test and immediately seeing two lines.  Suddenly, all I felt was joy.  Ready or not, at age 22, I was going to be a mom.

I quietly crawled back into bed next to my sweet, sleeping husband.  I gently woke him and told him the news.  I think I said something like, “I took a pregnancy test and it was positive.”  I think I was slightly nervous for his response…but that quickly subsided when he took me into his arms and told me how happy he was.  We both threw on some sweats and walked to the local Cub Foods (which was right next door to us) to buy another test.  (We were naive…we didn’t know how accurate those things were!)  I took another test and it revealed the same.  We were going to parents.  Jon, still a student and me, working at my big girl  job.  (Gosh, I am thankful that we were confident we could live on love! LOL)

Over the next 9 months, I experienced it all…morning sickness, tiredness(I took naps in my car on my lunch break), hormones and my 22 year old body becoming soft and curvaceous.  I was kind of a miserable pregnant girl but loving it all at the same time.  I made it through (although almost hyperventilating) asking my boss if I could work part-time after the baby was born, buying our first house, and Jon interviewing and getting his first job.  Looking back, it was slight chaos, but remember we were living on love…not on a plan or bank account.

In late January, I woke up from a dead sleep to some strong contractions and knew it was time.  I excitedly showered and got ready to go!  We didn’t know the baby’s gender and I remember specifically thinking I would know if the baby was a boy or girl soon!  I let Jon sleep as long as possible and then waited as he got ready to go.  My contractions weren’t too notable but they were still consistent.  We rushed down to Mercy Hospital and got all checked in.  After a few hours of monitoring and seeing if I would progress, they admitted me.  It was a slow, long labor.  I didn’t write a birth-plan (I didn’t think it was necessary) but I did not anticipate such a long process!

My sweet girl…brand new!

Finally, things started to really progress, somewhere in there I got an epidural, which for me was a beautiful thing!  I relaxed and was fully dilated in no time.  It was time to push…I spent the next 3 hours pushing.  I remember about 2.5 hours into it the doctor started discussing a c-section with me.  The baby’s heart rate was not responding well with the contractions.  I told her I didn’t care…if a c-section meant a healthy baby then so be it.  She and my nurse got me fired up to try a few more pushes.  For the next 20 minutes, my nurse and Jon became my biggest cheerleaders.  I still vividly remember reaching down and feeling my baby’s head as he/she was trying to enter the world.  A few more pushes and a tiny baby was laid on my chest.  “It’s a big, baby girl!”  the doctor announced.

Our first day home together.

I don’t know that I have ever been more overcome with joy, love and emotion.  I had just experienced a miracle…a real-life miracle.  I was immediately captivated with this tiny girl.  She was beautiful, and perfect, and she was mine.  My soul was singing!  I remember looking up at Jon’s tear-stained face and wishing time could stop.  We announced her name, Hallie Kate, and just stared at her in awe.  I was a mom.  Jon and I were parents.  We did it…God did it!  Together with Him, we would start this amazing journey of parenthood

I bet you vividly remember when you became a Mom for the first time! Take a moment to reflect upon it. Tell us about it!

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5 Responses to Becoming a Mom: A Story From A Mom of Three

  1. JodiZeaPeterson February 28, 2013 at 12:56 pm #

    I remember we were getting for church and my husband was hoping I was in labor because Iowa had just lost to Iowa state football the day before.  Then all of a sudden my water starting slowly leaking but I wasn’t having contractions.  I pushed for 2.5 hrs (18hrs total labor).  I used to get so irritated when my friends say oh I pushed twice and there she was. Seriously!?!  I don’t think anything prepares you for being a mom.  Thanks for sharing Katie.

  2. Rachel V
    Rachel V February 28, 2013 at 1:09 pm #

    What an emotional post! I teared up! I can remember each of my kiddos like it was yesterday…But with my first babe, I can remember my mom being so nonchalant- taking a shower and getting ready before she drove me to the hospital. (While I was FREAKING OUT!) That rush of emotions when you hold your baby for the first time is absolutely priceless.

  3. AngelaThayer February 28, 2013 at 3:00 pm #

    Beautiful post, Katie! I love your story. I remember so vividly when I found out I was pregnant with both kids. With Troy it was a total surprise…I was at the dr. for strep throat and they did a blood test and found out that I was pregnant! I was shocked…and nervous to tell Lane. Thankfully he was was so excited and supportive. Thanks again for sharing your story.

  4. KatieEvans February 28, 2013 at 3:18 pm #

    @AngelaThayer What a fun, crazy way to find out!! Loved hearing from everyone!

  5. Katie Cox February 28, 2013 at 5:54 pm #

    I LOVE birth and pregnancy stories! My water broke with Drake at home right as I was getting ready to go to the grocery store. It was JUST like the movies where it was everywhere so I was really happy I had not made it to the grocery store yet!

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